Goodbye

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Happy 2012! Since 2011 has come to a close, I’ve decided it’s time to make some changes. After doing a lot of thinking about the direction this blog is heading, I’ve decided to stop writing on Wordsmith.

I will, however, be posting regularly on my new blog, The Two Cent Chick, so please check it out! I plan on writing about the things I love, most notably, bargain hunting and deals of all kinds!

Thank you to everyone who has subscribed to my blog and supported me, given advice and read my posts! I really, really appreciate it!

 

Holiday Pet Peeves

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I’ll be the first to admit that my personal list of pet peeves is relatively extensive. Chewing food with one’s mouth open, drivers who fail to use their turn signal, and rudeness in general. Over the past few months, though, there are two peeves of mine that have grown increasingly annoying and unbelivable

These annoyances stem from my current part-time job in retail. If you read my update post back in June, you’ll know that I’ve been working at Kohl’s. In the past five-ish months, I have had the opportunity to observe this retail giant’s practices, specifically regarding the holidays, and I have to be honest: I’m plain sick of it.

And it’s not just Kohl’s. If you’ve stepped into, let’s face it, ANY store, you’ll know that it’s been “Christmastime” since about September.

Thus, my holiday pet peeves:

1) Christmas in September

Perhaps not all retail stores begin decorating for the holiday season in September, but Kohl’s most definitely did. I know this because I participated. Around September 12th, the fake snow, strings of lights, thousands of ornaments and artificial trees (read about my opinion on these trees here) were dusted off and placed on the floor.

The Halloween decorations (which had been on sale since August, by the way) were pushed aside and several areas of the store were transformed into what Kohl’s considers the perfect winter wonderland.

In between attempting to remove the glitter from my hair and face and trying to breathe normally again after inhaling the delightful synthetic snow known as “flock”, I began to wonder what I had gotten myself into.

I completely understand why every retail store wants to push Christmas/December holidays as early as possible. They know that when shoppers see the gleaming Christmas displays, they will immediately get in the holiday mood, also known as the mood to shop.

But to me, the intrusion of Christmas merchandise  in September/October is excessively early. Around the time when children have just begin school, we are already focused on a holiday three months away? For all of the advice and life rules that suggest we should take things one day at a time, why do we make an exception for this materialistic standard?

If decorating for Christmas in September wasn’t enough, my ears were graced with holiday music on November 1st. The day after Halloween. Because that’s clearly the appropriate time to begin seriously celebrating the season.

It seems with the amount of time that holiday merchandise is in stores, we might as well “celebrate” Christmas year round and forget about other holidays. We seem to always be in a rush to begin the Christmas season, which leads me to my next pet peeve…

2) The neglect of Thanksgiving

With the constant focus on December holidays, Thanksgiving is definitely the most overlooked holiday. With the radios already playing Christmas music, and every other commercial announcing this year’s earlier time for every retail store to open for Black Friday, it’s no wonder why the day to give thanks is really just the day before Christmas begins for real.

This is clearly evident in Kohl’s and other stores, too. If you’re looking for anything to do with Thanksgiving, you’ll find a display or two of decorations and maybe even some kitchen related items. And that’s it. But with every corner you turn, you can find Christmas gifts, decorations, etc.

Once again, I know why stores primarily focus on Christmas. But, there has to be a line somewhere.

On a related note, the New York Times recently posted an article about shoppers’ rejecting Black Friday shopping that begins on, you guessed it, Thanksgiving (read that article here). There are so many things wrong with opening a store at 10 p.m. on Black Friday, but one of the main issues is the employees of these retail stores.

Doesn’t everyone deserve to spend Thanksgiving DAY (which ends at 12 P.M.) away from work? Especially the retail employees who will have to wake up in the middle of the night anyways to head into work for Black Friday? I know I begin work at 2 a.m. on Black Friday, and some of my fellow employees will begin work at 11:30 p.m. on Thanksgiving.

It’s simple: Christmas has overtaken Thanksgiving. Actually, Christmas has overtaken every holiday, and store, and our minds and our real reasons for celebrating the holiday in the first place. What is supposed to be “the most wonderful time of the year” IS the year. And it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas because retail stores make it that way.  Merry Christmas!

What are your holiday pet peeves? Do you agree with the New York Times article?

My life is in limbo…

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and I’m not referring to the fun party game.

Life is unpredictable, and everybody understands this.  But sometimes, it can feel as if the “limbo” period might never end, and a somewhat stable, limbo-less life may never begin.

Currently, my life is in limbo. I just graduated from college in May, and now…well, now what? I have dreams and ideas about what I would like my future to hold, and I am trying my best to work towards them. It’s not as if I am sitting at home, twiddling my thumbs and waiting for the perfect career and life to fall into my lap. I am working a full-time retail job and searching for a “real” job. Yet, all the while, I can’t help feeling unsure of what the next day will bring, let alone the rest of my life.

It’s not difficult to understand why I, and any other college graduate, feels this way. Since the time I began preschool up until last May, my “life” was all about getting an education. A high level of comfort and predictability goes hand in hand with that education.

But that comfort and predictability has recently vanished. At one point before I graduated, I was optimistic about beginning the next chapter of my life (click here to read that post). Yet, now, I can’t help but be overcome with anxiety every time I mull over how to discern every aspect of my new life post college.

This seemingly perpetual transition stage is scary, yet it seems to be what life simply is. Are we ever really completely settled with our lives in perfect balance? I know that things change every single day, no matter how much we would love for everything to stay the same. So, there’s only one solution:

“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.”

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Day 62: Friend

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Day 62: Friend

What would–or wouldn’t–you do for your closest friend?

My response:

I would, and do, try to tell the truth whenever possible. In the long run, it’s better to know the honest truth in the present, even if it harms the friend or relationship.

Day 61: Happy Rewrite

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Day 61: Happy Rewrite

Rewrite the following sentence in a way that is more interesting and less cliched:

And they lived happily ever after.

My response:

And as time marched on, so did the beating of their hearts, keeping the pulse of a love which would never cease.